luified:the luiboi experience

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

Disclaimer: Being the kind of guy that I am there are a couple of things that I simply don’t get about women. I’m not saying that all women are hard to understand, im not generalizing them, im only pertaining to some.

The one thing that I probably would always have a hard time understanding about women is their ever changing way of thinking. One moment she says and a second after its different. Talk about being indecisive. There are also times that you’d ask them about something and they’ll answer you with something which isn’t actually what they meant. Most of them wants us guys to decode the underlying messages in their answers. When in the first place they could just say what they really want, right?

All im tryin’ to say is that somehow women could be more straightforward. Im not sayin’ that I’m the typical kind of guy who doesn’t understand women at all. Im tryin’ my very best to try and understand women but sometimes its just too much and its makin’ my head-ache. All im wishin’ for is that at least they could mean what they say. If they say it’s a yes, then let it be a yes and a no for a no, no more in betweens because it just makes simple things complicated. Its hard to guess all the time.

Something that I also don’t get with women are their constant mood swings. Its also something that brings pain to my head. One moment both of you are having fun and some time after she’s totally different. In my case, a week before both of you are obviously ok and getting along very well then suddenly the week after the situation’s completely different. Damn!

These two things really gives me a hard time right now. Im really clueless ‘bout certain things. I even think back if there’s something that I did wrong but to my recollection there haven’t been any. So what am I goin’ to do now, guess? Guessing isn’t really the best option right? Because guessing is as good as assuming and girls doesn’t like assuming guys, ain’t that right?

Women’s comments are greatly much appreciated for this post. Guy posts are still welcome though. Girls, if you have some explanation to either of these two things that I talked about please tell me. Your thoughts would be of great help to me. Thanks.

In the words of the band ATARIS;
“I guess I’ll never figure out what womankind is all about…”

I sent an S.O.S tonight